billw55, on 2012-December-21, 10:12, said:
tbh it sounds like you are too easily trolled.
Are you also infuriated, say, by those who insist the moon landing was fake? Or that bigfoot exists? How about ghosts? For me, I find any stubborn belief in nonsense to be equally silly, but certainly not worth my emotional energy to get infuriated over. If you are reacting this way specifically to religious arguments, but not to other things you consider nonsense, it might mean something you don't expect.
If you get infuriated by all of them equally, you do get points for consistency. But it seems like a stressful way to live.
I view them the same way, if people brought it up all the time and tried to make me believe the same things and would not listen to any arguments to the contrary then yes, I would find them infuriating and would not spend time with them. I mean, I don't spend time with anyone who actively talks about how god is real, or that the moon landing is fake, or that bigfoot exists, or that they believe in ghosts lol and I never would. However, if it's just a view they held and basically kept quiet about it of course I could and would be friends with them if they were an otherwise good friend.
I do have one friend who has done a lot of hallucenogens who won't watch TV because he is convinced aliens are sending subliminal messages through them. He takes it well when we laugh at him/rib him and he doesn't go off about it very much (pretty much only when he meets someone new) so it is more funny than infuriating. It does not effect my day to day interactions with him, or his life at all as far as I can tell (other than that he won't watch TV).
I think these kind of things can be harmless to the relationship or they can be infuriating and hurtful to the relationship, depending on how important it is to the other person and how much they need to talk to you about it and convince you they are right. I will admit I have never met anyone who was adamant that ghosts were real or the moon landing was faked and tried to actively convince me of this and would not listen to any of my arguments as to why this is a questionable belief to hold. Have you? But surely we have all met religious people who are this way, even if their intentions are good and they're trying to "save" me, I could not have a friendship with that person or be around them because they would be highly annoying. The difference is that it is societally acceptable (in fact, religious people are a large majority) to believe in god, it is not societally acceptable to believe in ghosts, so we get far more religious nuts than ghost nuts.
Let's put it another way, my bridge partner is convinced that 4 card majors are better than 5 card majors, however I still play with him -- and we play 5 card majors