diana_eva, on 2018-November-24, 05:27, said:
Apparently he does see there is a problem (somewhere, unclear where - but he knows something's wrong when everyone else goes to slam and his partnerships doesn't), else he wouldn't have posted here. Cut him some slack or get off the N/B forum please. He's willing to talk and go over hands which is a huge step forward. Many players don't care the least to think about what went wrong in some past hand, they shudder it off with a "bad luck part".
I would agree with you were it not for two themes that arise in a lot of his posts. One is that he claims to be unable to count to 9 tricks....see the thread where he was annoyed that the field bid 3N while he bid 5D. He claimed that 3N would always fail on good defence, when it was in fact cold on the same finesse as was needed in 5D. Then he argued that a hand that was off the first two heart tricks, with the lead being obvious, was a slam hand. Why? Because in his game most declare s made 12 tricks
So he is either trolling us or he cannot count tricks, or see loses, even when he knows all 4 hands.....despite playing bridge for 40 years.
The other theme is that at no time has he ever expressed any agreement with or appreciation for constructive advice. Instead he consistently asserts that anyone critiquing his analysis or providing advice is engaged in a personal attack. He adds to this comments that seem aimed at denigrating the ability of those who have criticized his ideas. Thus he claims to be asking for advice, but wont tolerate anything short of approval for his amazingly weak ideas. Those ideas would be excusable in a true beginner, but one cannot claim to be a beginner after 40 years. Moreover, he often claims to see himself as an intermediate level player.
I have been harsh in my recent comments, but I began my responses to him with constructive advice, to which he responded, as he did to others, with claims of persecution and attack.
He is either one of those sick people who get their jollies pretending to be someone they are not, or he is an unfortunate person utterly lacking talent for a game he enjoys. In the former case, he bores me. In the latter case, I feel a little sorry for hm.
'one of the great markers of the advance of human kindness is the howls you will hear from the Men of God' Johann Hari