barmar, on 2014-December-23, 16:06, said:
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If girls are denied an education, they grow into ignorant women with few prospects other than getting married and depending on their husband. They're likely to be trapped in poor marriages, and they'll put up with spousal abuse because they have no choice. And since they're the primary caregiver for children, they pass on their ignorance.
Sounds like a social commentary on 19th century NA and Western European society to me, not to mention some growing segments of the US (google 'quiverfull)
It is tempting to see our own culture as the exemplar to which all should aspire. It is tempting to see our current situation as having always 'really' been the way it is. It is tempting to see our own culture not as it is but as we'd like it to be.
I am a white, heterosexual male from a middle class background. While I like to think that what success I have had in life is entirely the result of my own efforts, even I have had to recognize that my background either helped or, more likely, was not the obstacle that it would have been had I been other.
In 1973, when I was graduating in Engineering, I was a member of a small class of about 25 students (Chemical Engineering). We all sent resumes to various large potential employers.
We had several Chinese students, some of them native to Vancouver, which has long been multi-cultural, and some students sent over by their parents from Hong Kong. By the end of our 4th year we were all getting along well. While the white students ranged in ethnicity from Anglo-Saxon to Polish to Italian and so on, the non-whites were all Chinese.
We noticed that one large company invited some to interviews and not others. All of the whites got interviews, with one exception. None of the Chinese got interviews, and it didn't matter whether they were completely 'Canadian' or from Hong Kong.
The one white guy (and we were all male) who didn't get an interview was Al Twa. Now, I don't know the ethnic origin of his last name but it seemed obvious to us that the recruiting people from this large company viewed him as oriental.
I suspect that these days somebody might have laid a Human Rights Complaint, but back then all we could do was to try to laugh it off.
Part of the annual practices of the Engineering Student body back then was to organize a Lady Godiva ride: a hooker would be hired to ride naked around campus on a hired horse, escorted by rowdy engineering students....she would then be invited to a private function with some of the student executives, or so rumour had it. This was part of a pervasive attitude towards women, which was possible only because there were virtually zero women enrolling in Engineering at the time. I remember being told, as if it were funny....and I confess that as a 17 year old I probably laughed....that it cost the engineering student society a lot more for the horse than for the girl.
Now, I don't for one moment think that this sort of thing goes on now at my old university, and I think that any employment discrimination is likely to be more subtle than it was for my classmate, Al Twa. My point is that it is easy to point to practices and attitudes in the 'benighted' parts of the world and proclaim our superiority, but the truth is that we aren't that superior and that it was only recently that we became even partially enlightened on gender or race issues. Indeed, while I didn't watch Borat, I am told that some of the more painfully funny scenes involved filming real people exhibiting horrific attitudes when unaware that they were being recorded. Scratch below the surface in many parts of the Western world, and bigotry may be a lot closer than you would like to think. Indeed, the media is constantly full of examples of domestic abuse and sexual assault of and on women in NA, so it seems somewhat hypocritical for a NA male to claim that it is Islamic cultural values that lead to that sort of thing.
'one of the great markers of the advance of human kindness is the howls you will hear from the Men of God' Johann Hari