kenberg, on 2014-March-21, 07:25, said:
I intend the following not as disputing the post of Y66 but rather to enlarge on it in a way that has been troubling me for sometime. Two experiences from yesterday.
Last summer I was having some physical problems and I hired a kid, about 16, to mow the grass. A good kid, good worker, honest and responsible, he does well in school. His sister is delightful and his mother a very good person. I found out yesterday he is now in a clinic suffering from depression.
Later, my wife was having lunch with a friend. The friend's grandson is in serious crisis. He is now an adult, the parents were having him live at home but after he threw something at the father, knocking him out, they had to move him elsewhere..They tried a living facility for the troubled but that is not working either.
Neither of these young people are from poverty. Not rich, but not poverty.
To quote Dylan:
Because something is happening here
But you don't know what it is
Do you, Mister Jones
I confess that I do not at all understand it. It seems to me that young people are under far more pressure than when I was young, or maybe it's that it is more subtle or destructive pressure. My adolescence was a long time ago, and memory is selective. But mostly I remember it as a time with stresses, but you could mostly see them coming and with a little sense, you could cope. I didn't know anyone who was hospitalized for depression, I didn't know anyone who had to live at home because he couldn't cope with the world and then couldn't live at home either because he was too screwed up even for that. It's just not the way I remember my young years. I did know one kid with severe epilepsy so I am not claiming everything was perfect.
We need to get a handle on this. Poverty is no doubt part of the problem, but I don't think that money, or the lack of it, is anywhere near the whole story. I am largely at a loss for ideas.
I can't provide specifics so I will have to give an abstracted interpretation of what I think may have happened and continues to happen. It used to be (in the 50s and 60s) that there was room in the US for a middle area, a gray area, if you will. Those who lived within this gray area never dreamed of riches or feared poverty - they accepted their lives as pretty decent, unlikely to get much better or much worse, and worked within those confines.
Something has changed that gray area into a black and white battle line - I think it is too much emphasis on a form of unbridled capitalism that draws lines in the sand of clear winners and losers, of black and white.
When you apply that kind of win or go home to a lifetime expectancy of a young man or young woman who only wants to fit in, who isn't interested in going to economic war every day, it can lead to a sense of hopelessness.
And that in my opinion is what has occurred to a great extent: the world is being divided into winners and losers, and the losers (and those who don't wish to play the game to start) and sensing hopelessness.